Welcome to Parenthood!!!!
That’s what I always heard once I deliver to my dear son – Arry. Yup.. being parent mmg anugerah yg tak ternilai.. tapi tak semudah yang disangka.
Memetik kata-kata Wardina di dlm bukunya ‘Mama saya lapar’.. Pertama kali menjadi ibu ibarat dicampakkan ke laut tanpa pelampung & tanpa asas renang… untuk terus hidup kita terus berusaha terkapai-kapai sehingga ke tepian. Thats really really true & exactly what I feel.. Nak tunggu bersedia, sampai bila2 pon takkan bersedia. Senang citer redah jer. Of course I’ve take some initiative to learn to be a mother & how to take care of baby/kids. I do have lots of parenting books & tanya org tua2 yang lebih byk mkn garam. Especially my mom, she’s my parenting encyclopedia. Being a mother to my only son was so tiring. I can’t imagine how other people raise 6-7kids (dekat2 plak tu beza umur). Maybe alah bisa tegal biasa. Maybe its me that over reacting & want everything to be perfect. Sbb tu la penat… heheh
Itupon arry kecik lagi, baru nak masuk 8 bulan.. Herm.. bila arry nak besar .. bole jalan.. bole sebut “Sayang Mommy.. sayang Daddy”.. Lambatnyer..mmg la org lain yg tgk arry ckp.. la cepatnya besar.. aritu tgk kecik jer.. skrg dah montel. Tapi yg membesarkan nie.. terasa lambatnya. Tapi org kata nnt bila anak kita dah besar , kita akan rindu masa dia baby2 dulu. So for right now, I should enjoy every moment with arry.. coz it will not be repeated.
Yup.. jadi ibu mmg bole redah jerr.. coz most of it just use our common sense & nature instinct. But to be a better mom we have to seach for knowledge. Tak kisahla dari pembacaan majalah ker , brochure ker, buku ker or tanya org yg lebih berpengalaman. My experience, I really appreciate info from my readings. Byk juga menda2 yg org2 tua tak tau.. contohnya post partum or postnatal depression yg mana org kita sebut “gila meroyan”. Org dulu2 selalunya memandang ringan menda2 nie. Hampir 90% wanita bersalin mengalami gangguang hormon lepas bersalin. Me too!!! I suddenly crying without reason after discharge from hospital. Nasib baik la ada terbaca dlm buku yg simptom tu biasa & cara2 utk mengurangkan tekanan tu. I told my hubby, & im so lucky sbb dia memahami dan bagi moral support. Byk lagi info dlm buku yg org tua tak ajar secara langsung.. contohnya rutin tidur, baby development, why baby do this & that.. semua ada dlm buku.. Without knowledge , ada menda yg kita tak faham kenapa baby mcm tu. Contohnya baby menangis… sangatlah tertekan.. plus I stay alone (hubby selalu balik lmbt). Honestly, penah rasa geram sgt kat arry bila dia nangis tak berenti. Tapi bila baca buku, diterangkan yg baby nangis bukan sbb nak menyusahkan kita & ada cara2 utk tenangkan dia. Its was the only way for them to communicate. Kita la yg kena mencari sebabnya dia nangis. Byk la lagi info yg tak muat blog rasanya kalo nak tulis.. yang pastinya I really appreciate the info from my parenting books collection…
That’s what I always heard once I deliver to my dear son – Arry. Yup.. being parent mmg anugerah yg tak ternilai.. tapi tak semudah yang disangka.
Memetik kata-kata Wardina di dlm bukunya ‘Mama saya lapar’.. Pertama kali menjadi ibu ibarat dicampakkan ke laut tanpa pelampung & tanpa asas renang… untuk terus hidup kita terus berusaha terkapai-kapai sehingga ke tepian. Thats really really true & exactly what I feel.. Nak tunggu bersedia, sampai bila2 pon takkan bersedia. Senang citer redah jer. Of course I’ve take some initiative to learn to be a mother & how to take care of baby/kids. I do have lots of parenting books & tanya org tua2 yang lebih byk mkn garam. Especially my mom, she’s my parenting encyclopedia. Being a mother to my only son was so tiring. I can’t imagine how other people raise 6-7kids (dekat2 plak tu beza umur). Maybe alah bisa tegal biasa. Maybe its me that over reacting & want everything to be perfect. Sbb tu la penat… heheh
Itupon arry kecik lagi, baru nak masuk 8 bulan.. Herm.. bila arry nak besar .. bole jalan.. bole sebut “Sayang Mommy.. sayang Daddy”.. Lambatnyer..mmg la org lain yg tgk arry ckp.. la cepatnya besar.. aritu tgk kecik jer.. skrg dah montel. Tapi yg membesarkan nie.. terasa lambatnya. Tapi org kata nnt bila anak kita dah besar , kita akan rindu masa dia baby2 dulu. So for right now, I should enjoy every moment with arry.. coz it will not be repeated.
Yup.. jadi ibu mmg bole redah jerr.. coz most of it just use our common sense & nature instinct. But to be a better mom we have to seach for knowledge. Tak kisahla dari pembacaan majalah ker , brochure ker, buku ker or tanya org yg lebih berpengalaman. My experience, I really appreciate info from my readings. Byk juga menda2 yg org2 tua tak tau.. contohnya post partum or postnatal depression yg mana org kita sebut “gila meroyan”. Org dulu2 selalunya memandang ringan menda2 nie. Hampir 90% wanita bersalin mengalami gangguang hormon lepas bersalin. Me too!!! I suddenly crying without reason after discharge from hospital. Nasib baik la ada terbaca dlm buku yg simptom tu biasa & cara2 utk mengurangkan tekanan tu. I told my hubby, & im so lucky sbb dia memahami dan bagi moral support. Byk lagi info dlm buku yg org tua tak ajar secara langsung.. contohnya rutin tidur, baby development, why baby do this & that.. semua ada dlm buku.. Without knowledge , ada menda yg kita tak faham kenapa baby mcm tu. Contohnya baby menangis… sangatlah tertekan.. plus I stay alone (hubby selalu balik lmbt). Honestly, penah rasa geram sgt kat arry bila dia nangis tak berenti. Tapi bila baca buku, diterangkan yg baby nangis bukan sbb nak menyusahkan kita & ada cara2 utk tenangkan dia. Its was the only way for them to communicate. Kita la yg kena mencari sebabnya dia nangis. Byk la lagi info yg tak muat blog rasanya kalo nak tulis.. yang pastinya I really appreciate the info from my parenting books collection…
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